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The Ten Commandments (Part 9): What Does the Bible Say About Lying?

Why is truth so hard to find today? We live in a world where misinformation, deception, rumors, and half-truths seem to be everywhere. Trust in leaders, institutions, media, and even personal relationships has steadily eroded. In such an environment, many people ask: What does the Bible say about lying? The answer begins with God’s command in Exodus 20:16: “You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.”

In this article, we examine the ninth commandment found in Exodus 20:16.

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Exodus 20:16

  1. “You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.”

Have You Ever Broken the Ninth Commandment?

Lying—giving false testimony about others—is something all of us have done. At one time or another, we have all:

  • told a small “white lie”
  • distorted the truth
  • told only part of the truth
  • repeated gossip without knowing the facts
  • damaged someone’s reputation
  • spoke falsely against someone
  • avoided blame by bending the truth
  • shifted blame by withholding the truth
  • hinted at or implied something false about another person
  • exaggerated the truth to make ourselves look better
  • used a gesture or expression to suggest something false or to avoid revealing the truth

Scripture unequivocally declares, in Psalm 116:11 (NKJV), “All men are liars.”

  1. I said in my haste, “All men are liars.”

The Meaning of the Ninth Commandment

Lying is so common in our culture that many people now tolerate it, expect it, or simply stop questioning it. Public statements are often treated with suspicion, trust in leaders and institutions has eroded, and truth is increasingly treated as something subjective rather than objective. Yet giving new labels to falsehood does not change what it is: a lie remains a lie.

This erosion of truth has serious consequences. When dishonesty becomes normal, trust breaks down in families, friendships, churches, businesses, and society as a whole. That is why the ninth commandment still matters so deeply: God calls His people to be truthful in word and character, building their lives and relationships on what is true.

This is the heart of the ninth commandment: truth matters. We are to build our lives—and our families, friendships, businesses, schools, churches, communities, and governments—on truth. Commandment Nine concerns our words and character: never lie.

Who is to obey this commandment? Some commentators say that this commandment was initially given to govern testimony in legal courts, to make absolutely sure that no one lied or gave false testimony in court.

There is no question that this commandment does direct an individual who gives evidence in court: his testimony must always be true. But the commandment is considerably broader than that; it covers far more than legal testimony. God is affirming that no person is ever to lie against a neighbor. We must not at any time bear false witness against a neighbor, and we must never bear false witness to a neighbor. We must always tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

The Ongoing Relevance of the Commandment

So, was this commandment just for the ancient Israelites, or perhaps only for people who lived before Christ? Was lying merely a problem back then, or is it something we still struggle with today? The answer is clear: this commandment is just as important now as it was then. God still cares deeply about righteousness in our world. When He says, “You shall not bear false witness,” He means it for us too. We are called not to lie—ever.

The New Testament addresses lying in the same way as the Old Testament.

Ephesians 4:25 (NKJV) begins a passage that addresses grieving the Holy Spirit.

  1. Therefore, putting away LYING, “Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another.

Colossians 3:9 NKJV

  1. Do not LIE to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds,

Adopting a new identity in Christ naturally changes how we behave. This transformation means leaving behind all forms of dishonesty—every attitude or action that belongs to our former life and does not reflect Christ’s teachings. Just as we set aside our old nature to embrace a new one, we reject deceit and commit ourselves to honesty.

When we lie to one another, we undermine our unity, spark disagreements, and break down trust. Dishonesty damages relationships and can even create serious divisions within the church, the home, and work. On the other hand, being truthful encourages understanding. To preserve unity, believers need to be completely honest with each other.

Forms of False Witness

Lies come in many shapes, and we must be vigilant to avoid them. Here are a few.

One example is slander: this means having negative thoughts about someone and telling others, distorting the truth about them, or damaging a person’s reputation by spreading harmful stories.

Psalm 101:5 NKJV

  1. Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, Him I will destroy; The one who has a haughty look and a proud heart, Him I will not endure.

Proverbs 10:18 NKJV

  1. Whoever hides hatred has lying lips, And whoever spreads slander is a fool.

Another form is gossip or spreading rumors. This involves sharing stories—big or small, whether fabricated or based on something heard. It means passing along negative information, whether it is a product of our imagination or something we have been told.

1 Timothy 5:13 NKJV

  1. And besides they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house, and not only idle but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not.

Then there are subtle suggestions or insinuations: these create negative impressions about a person, raise suspicions that something could be true, or lead others to consider the possibility of inappropriate or questionable behavior.

Exodus 23:1 NKJV

  1. You shall not circulate a false report. Do not put your hand with the wicked to be an unrighteous witness.

Deception is another kind of lie: it happens when we convince ourselves or others that something is true simply because we wish it to be, or when we share information as fact without really knowing the truth. It involves misleading both ourselves and others, especially when we accept and spread negative reports that might not actually be accurate.

Proverbs 12:17 NKJV

  1. He who speaks truth declares righteousness, But a false witness, deceit.

Another form is making false accusations or offering harsh criticism: this includes bringing complaints about someone to others, discussing their shortcomings or mistakes with people beside them, and criticizing or judging someone in conversations where they aren’t present.

Exaggeration and excessive flattery are also forms of dishonesty: this means overstating the truth about someone, giving them undeserved praise, misrepresenting who they are, or creating an inaccurate image of that person.

Proverbs 29:5 NKJV

  1. A man who flatters his neighbor Spreads a net for his feet.

Psalm 12:3 NKJV

  1. May the Lord cut off all flattering lips, And the tongue that speaks proud things,

Now that covers the types of lies. Let’s look at how these lies can be applied.

There are countless ways people can be dishonest, including:

  • giving false testimony under oath
  • spreading misleading information for a purpose
  • exaggerating achievements
  • only sharing part of the truth
  • not keeping promises
  • distorting facts to avoid blame
  • placing responsibility on others
  • trying to damage someone’s reputation
  • telling a lie for personal benefit
  • inventing reasons to avoid consequences
  • trying to avoid accountability or discipline
  • using gestures or expressions, like raising an eyebrow or shrugging, to deny the truth or suggest something false

Three Serious Consequences of Lying

Telling a lie creates at least three serious consequences.

1) Lying distorts reality. It hides what is true, leaving people in the dark and causing them to make decisions based on falsehood. When the lie is significant, the damage can be severe:

  • Dishonesty in business can cause financial loss and hardship.
  • Pretending to love someone can lead to heartbreak and harm.
  • Lying about the gospel can obscure a person’s hope of eternal life.

2) Lying misleads people. It sends them off course for selfish or destructive purposes, such as:

  • to gain a personal advantage
  • to manipulate or tempt another person
  • to conceal the truth
  • to bring harm or distress

The result is confusion, disappointment, uncertainty, helplessness, emotional pain, and sometimes even moral ruin.

3) Lying destabilizes relationships. No friendship, family, marriage, church, or partnership can remain healthy when built on dishonesty. Lying tears down:

  • confidence
  • peace of mind
  • sense of safety
  • love
  • mutual trust
  • hope for the future

In addition, Scripture highlights three sobering realities about false witness.

1) False witness spreads quickly. It is often shared first with people we trust, but those people may pass it on to others. In this way, the damage multiplies, harming both people and the cause of Christ.
2) Whether true or false, harmful talk still wounds. Repeating a person’s failures or shame can deeply hurt that person and those close to them.

Proverbs 18:8 NKJV

  1. The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, And they go down into the inmost body.

3) God holds false witnesses accountable. No one escapes His judgment for spreading lies or rumors.

Proverbs 19:9 NKJV

  1. A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who speaks lies shall perish.

The Father of Lies vs. The God of Truth

Satan is the originator of lies and deceit. He was the first to ever speak a falsehood, which is why he is known as the father of lies. When someone chooses to lie, they are imitating Satan’s example and, according to the Bible, are described as a “child of the devil.”

John 8:44 NKJV

  1. 44. You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.

What Does the Bible say About Lying

On the other hand, God is the ultimate source of truth. Throughout Scripture, it is repeatedly affirmed that God is the God of truth.

Numbers 23:19 NKJV

  1. “God is not a man, that He should lie, Nor a son of man, that He should repent.

Has He said, and will He not do? Or has He spoken, and will He not make it good?

20 Behold, I have received a command to bless; He has blessed, and I cannot reverse it.

Deuteronomy 32:4 NKJV

  1. He is the Rock, His work is perfect; For all His ways are justice, A God of TRUTH and without injustice; Righteous and upright is He.

Titus 1:1-2 NKJV

  1. 1. Paul, a bondservant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ, according to the faith of God’s elect and the acknowledgment of the truth which accords with godliness,
  2.  in hope of eternal life which God, WHO CANNOT LIE, promised before time began,

There are others.

Because truth reflects God’s own character, dishonesty brings real damage wherever it takes root. Bearing false witness can destroy relationships, destabilize homes and organizations, and lead to painful consequences such as the following:

  • divorce
  • losing a job
  • unemployment
  • broken relationships
  • emotional pain
  • failure
  • bankruptcy
  • collapse of organizations or families
  • acts of revenge
  • retaliation
  • abuse
  • accidents
  • suffering
  • imprisonment
  • even death

When considering honesty and how we communicate the truth, it is important to ask: Should truth always be delivered bluntly or without compassion?

In legal settings, truth must be presented clearly and directly. However, in our personal interactions, we should be careful not to inflict unnecessary pain, embarrassment, or shame. We are never called to use the truth as a weapon to hurt others. Instead, we should always express truth with kindness and love, not with harshness or cruelty.

Ephesians 4:15 (NKJV)

  1. but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ—

Blessings of Obedience

What are the rewards of obeying this commandment? Our word is our bond. When our word is trustworthy, it is reflected in our character. According to Scripture, those whose words can be relied upon will experience great blessings.

Someone who speaks honestly and embraces God’s wonderful gift of salvation will receive both blessings and righteousness from the Lord.

Psalm 24:4-5 NKJV

  1. He who has clean hands and a pure heart, Who has not lifted up his soul to an idol,

Nor sworn deceitfully.

  1. He shall receive blessing from the Lord, And righteousness from the God of his salvation.

A person who genuinely loves others will not spread falsehoods about anyone. When faced with a concern or a troubling rumor, he will approach the individual directly, aiming to help restore them in their faith. It’s important to remember that true love avoids harshness or belittling. Instead, it addresses others with compassion, gentleness, and strength, always guided by the Holy Spirit.

Galatians 6:1-2 NKJV

  1. Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.

Conclusion

I’m going to close with this Scripture: Romans 12:18 (NKJV).

  1. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.

One clear way to fulfill this Scripture is to obey the ninth commandment: “You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.”

Amen

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Blessings!

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The Fifth Commandment: Honor Your Father and Mother.

The Fifth Commandment: Honor Your Father and Mother is one of the most well-known instructions in the Bible, yet it is often misunderstood. What does it truly mean to honor your parents, and how should this commandment be applied in today’s world? In this article, we will explore the biblical meaning behind this command and why it still matters.

In the previous article, we explored the Fourth Commandment and our responsibility to honor God through the Sabbath. Now, we move into the next section of the Ten Commandments, where God shifts our focus to our relationships with others—beginning with the family.

Did you know…that one of the greatest problems in society today can be traced back to one thing…to a breakdown in the family? How can we prevent this?

Today, we continue our series on the Ten Commandments…and we come to the fifth commandment: Honor Your Father and Your Mother.

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👉 Part 4: The Fourth Commandment – The Sabbath
👉 Part 5: The Fifth Commandment – Honor Your Father and Mother
👉 Part 6: The Sixth Commandment – You Shall Not Murder

What is the Fifth Commandment?

Let’s take a look at this Commandment in Scripture: Exodus 20:12 NKJV

12.“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.

The family is fundamental to humanity. The family was the first institution formed upon earth. God created Adam and Eve, the first man and the first woman, and they became man and wife. Consequently, Eve bore a son. Therefore, the first family became the key institution, forming the basis for all subsequent human life and development.

It is the family that shapes the community, society, and governments of the world. From the beginning, God designed men and women not to simply exist, but to establish families and raise the next generation. They must produce children, or else everything crucial to humanity would eventually stop existing:

⇒           Human life would end.

⇒           Human society would end.

⇒           Human government would end.

Why This Commandment Still Matters Today

The main idea is that each generation has a responsibility to support and strengthen families for both their own time and for the future. Ignoring this duty is unwise, as the well-being of society and civilization relies on strong families where parents and children respect one another. Therefore, it’s important to focus on building up our families and addressing harmful influences that can threaten them all.

As the Scripture says in Hebrews 12:1 NKJV

  1. Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

So, we must, as the Scripture reads, “…lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us.”  The sins such as:

  • selfishness
  • disrespect
  • disobedience
  • rebellion

God established the family’s prevalence and magnitude forever when He created the first man and the first woman. He reinforces the superiority of the family with this great commandment: “Honor your father and your mother.”

God commands us—all of us—to honor and respect our fathers and mothers.

Should the family unit crumble, many essential values that support personal well-being—such as honor, respect, concern, responsibility, decency, love, joy, and peace—may diminish. The erosion of these fundamental virtues can, in turn, weaken both the community and society at large.

Therefore, this Commandment is perpetual. It does not apply only to the Old Testament or the Jews. Therefore, as long as men, women, and children live on the earth, we are to honor and obey our parents.

Who Should We Honor After God?

How important is this Commandment? Well, take note that the first four Commandments addressed our duty to God. But once we have done our duty to God, notice that our very next duty is to honor our parents—right behind honoring God—that’s how important this duty is. This is divine order…

honor God first…

Honor parents next.

How Do We Honor Our Parents?

To understand this commandment, we must first understand what it means to honor.

The Hebrew word for honor (kabed) means that we are to respect, esteem, and have a high regard for our parents. The concept of honor includes reverence; we are to esteem and value our parents, showing respect, kindness, and obedience, as suggested by the Greek word timao. In practical terms, the commandment means we are to …

  • Respect and obey our parents
  • Accept their guidance and corrections
  • Consider their advice and concerns
  • Provide comfort to them

To honor means listening to our parents and never despising them when they are old.

It is important to recognize that mothers should be respected equally with fathers, and vice versa, as indicated by the directive: “honor your father and your mother.” Both parents are afforded equal status. According to the scripture, God honors and regards mothers and fathers alike, instructing children to show respect to each parent without distinction.

Moving on, this commandment highlights an important principle: learning through example. Children are taught to honor their parents by observing how their own parents honor theirs. The commandment applies to everyone, including adults who are both parents and children; it encourages them to continue showing respect to their parents. Parents should foster a home environment filled with respect and honor, thereby teaching their children by example. Ultimately, this commandment underscores the crucial role parents play in modeling proper behavior for their children.

Titus 2:7 NKJV

  1. in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility

Proverbs 22:6 NKJV

  1. Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

Parents are responsible for teaching their children this commandment as well as others.

Does Honor Mean Obedience?

Why should children obey their parents?

Children should obey their parents because the Scriptures say so.

Ephesians 6:1-3 says:

  1. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
  2. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: 3. “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.”

The phrase “in the Lord” explains why children should obey their parents. As it reads, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord,” means that obeying your parents is the right thing to do, it comes from God, and it pleases Him. So, when parents guide and teach them, they should listen.

Children are not told to obey parents because it pleases the parent, but because it pleases the Lord.

Notice the two promises made to children who honor their parents.

First, things will go well for the child. Does this mean that the child will never have problems or have to suffer? No! This is not what the Scripture means. God means that He will be with the child, strengthen and take care of him so that he can walk through the trials of life victoriously. The child will be strengthened and made strong where it counts—in the inner self. It will be enabled to conquer and be victorious over whatever confronts it as it journeys through life.

Second, the child is assured that it will live a long life on earth. Frankly, there is little question that Paul meant this and that we should take it at face value. If a child honestly obeys and honors its parents faithfully—really obeys and honors from the depths of its heart—God will give it a long life on earth.

Difficult Situations: When Honoring is Difficult

However, it is important to note that we must not follow in the steps of evil parents as some have done in the past. Although honoring parents is a fundamental obligation, this does not necessitate emulating parents whose actions are inconsistent with moral or ethical standards.

Ezekiel 20:18-19

  1. “But I said to their children in the wilderness, ‘Do not walk in the statutes of your fathers, nor observe their judgments, nor defile yourselves with their idols.
  2. I am the Lord your God: Walk in My statutes, keep My judgments, and do them;

What About Abused Children?

Children are to obey their parents. But what about the problems that are so repulsively evident in society: the problems of parental abuse, the problems of physical abuse, sexual abuse, and mental abuse? Is a child to obey a parent when the parent is so devilishly wrong? No!

A child’s obedience has its limits. If a parent acts in ways that do not honor the Lord, the child is not required to obey. The Lord does not support unrighteousness or the mistreatment of children. If a child can escape such harmful behavior, it has the right to do so. The Lord’s purpose is to free people from abuse and sin, not to keep them trapped in it, and certainly not to let children suffer under it.

Jesus gave one of the strongest warnings in history to adults who harm children:

Mark 9:42 NKJV

  1. “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea.

Any parent who abuses a child should take this seriously because God will not tolerate the abuse of a child. We must share what the Bible says: children should obey their parents, but only if their parents’ wishes and instructions align with the Lord’s will.

God’s Order: Honor God First, Parents Next

If a parent ever instructs a child to do something that clearly contradicts God’s commands, that child must obey God rather than his/her parents.

Further, if a child is able to escape the harmful influence and mistreatment of its parents, it deserves the right to be separated from them. The child should go to another adult they feel close to and ask for help.

Let’s look at what it reads in Acts 5:29 NKJV

  1. But Peter and the other apostles answered and said: “We ought to obey God rather than men.

Honoring Parents as Adults

Now, understand that Scripture does not address only children of a certain age. Instead, it speaks to everyone who still has living parents. We are called to honor our fathers and mothers, to see them as precious, and to show them respect and reverence. Sadly, this attitude is becoming less common. Too often, children respond to their parents in ways such as:

  • talking back
  • cutting the parent
  • ignoring the parent
  • grumbling
  • speaking disrespectfully
  • not listening
  • acting like a know-it-all
  • calling the parent a cute but disrespectful name
  • disregarding instructions
  • putting off instructions

In addition to these, there is the dishonor of delinquency, crime, drugs, alcohol, and the abuse of property, and the list could go on and on. And when it comes to adult children with aged parents, there is the dishonor of neglect, the ignoring of their needs, and the shuffling of them to the side and failing to adequately care for them.

Too many adult children forget how much their parents have done for them—bringing them into the world and caring for them for years. Too many children forget the rich experience and knowledge their parents have gained over the years, which could be put to great use in meeting community and world needs. And even if the parents failed to be and to do all they should have, we as Christian children are instructed to honor them as followers of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Consequences of Disobedience

So, what are the consequences of disobedience?

This commandment is presented positively as an invitation from God to obey. Obedience is met with promised blessings, while disobedience results in serious consequences.

An individual who consistently fails to honor their parents risks jeopardizing their eternal destiny. According to Scripture, those characterized by sinful actions will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Romans 1:28-32 reads:

  1. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting;
  2. being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers,
  3. backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, DISOBEDIENT TO PARENTS,
  4. undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful;
  5. who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are DESERVING OF DEATH, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.

Disregarding and disobeying parents is deserving of death. This is not a small matter!

Practical Ways to Honor Your Parents

What does this commandment ask of us? Simply this—obedience.

The point is simply this: the law of obedience is part of the very nature of things. It lies at the heart of the universe and shapes how people live and act on Earth.

Many of the world’s problems, maybe even most, could be solved if people followed the fifth commandment. This commandment is clear and positive: we are to honor our fathers and mothers.

Let’s look at what Scripture teaches and the choices this commandment calls for:

We should honor our parents because it is one of God’s Ten Commandments.

We should honor our parents because it is simply the right thing to do.

Honoring our parents can lead to a longer life and a happier home, instead of one filled with tension. This is how:

We should show our parents respect and reverence.

We are called to obey our parents in the Lord.

We should hold on to and follow the teachings our parents give us.

We should pay attention to the Christian example our parents set for us.

We are to obey our parents even after we become adults.

We should care for our parents as they grow older.

That sums up the fifth Commandment!

Final Thoughts

Bottom line:

As Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7:19 NKJV

  1. Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing, but keeping the commandments of God is what matters.

You see, it’s not about ceremony; that was important at one time. But what is really important today is keeping the Commandments of God. All of them! And that is what really matters.

We must obey the Fifth Commandment!

Amen!

Questions, comments, and concerns may be left below.

Blessings!

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Continue through the Ten Commandments series below:

👉 Part 1: The First Commandment – No Other Gods
👉 Part 2: The Second Commandment – No Idols
👉 Part 3: The Third Commandment – Do Not Take His Name in Vain
👉 Part 4: The Fourth Commandment – The Sabbath
👉 Part 5: The Fifth Commandment – Honor Your Father and Mother
👉 Part 6: The Sixth Commandment – You Shall Not Murder

 

 

 

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